Education: It's Good for the World's Girls!

By Amy Phillips Bursch, Media Relations Manager

It’s back to school time, and my two eldest nieces, Sarah and Emily, just started kindergarten. I hope they're like me. I loved school. I always got bored about halfway through the summer and was more than ready to go back to class. I was a weird kid.

But around the world, not all girls are as lucky as I was, or as Sarah and Emily are. Even if they want to be in school, it may simply not be an option. Some families refuse to let their daughters attend school to protect them from the religious taboo of being seen by men. In other places, girls don’t have the necessary sanitary supplies, facilities or even pain relievers needed to attend class confidently during menstruation. In other nations, educating daughters is simply seen as a luxury families can't afford.

Nepalese students walk with their teacher. (Dmitry A. Mottl/Foter)

Here are a few eye-opening facts from The Girl Effect. Share them with girls (and boys!) you know:

• 600 million girls live in the developing world. One in four are not attending school.
• 70% of youths who are not attending school are girls.
• The current global population of girls ages 10 to 24 is the largest ever – and will peak in the next 10 years or so. The choices they make will affect all of us.
• When a girl receives at least seven years of school, on average she marries four years later and has 2.2 fewer children –  and that’s important for her health, her children’s health and the health of the planet.
• Moms in developing nations who receive more education have healthier babies and children.
• Educating girls pays off. Women and girls reinvest 90 cents of every dollar they earn back into their families. It’s important to educate boys and men, too, but they only reinvest 30 to 40 cents in their families.

So I know what you’re thinking: “That’s all very interesting, Amy, but why on Earth is a family planning advocacy organization blogging about keeping girls in school?” 

First of all, there’s nothing like an unplanned pregnancy to put a girl’s education on hold – or derail it permanently. That’s true whether it happens on the other side of the globe, or right here in the United States. If girls are having sex, affordable and appropriate contraception can help prevent unintended pregnancies – and unintended consequences.

Secondly, when those girls grow into women and are able to space and limit their pregnancies, they have more time – and money – to invest in each child. When resources are adequate, families are less likely to deny their daughters education. Then those educated daughters are more likely to educate their own daughters – and the cycle continues. According to Dr. Babatunde Osotimehin, executive director of UNFPA, voluntary family planning “will not only save and improve the lives of women and children; it will empower women, reduce poverty and ultimately build stronger nations.”

Education. It’s good stuff! Let’s make sure all of the world’s girls get it.

Sex Education: We've Got Learning to Do

By Amy Phillips Bursch, Media Relations Manager

 

My sex education was less than ideal. In sixth grade, they separated the boys from the girls and sent us into rooms where we watched grainy, out-of-date films explaining the reproductive system in the least interesting way possible. They also warned parents in advance. My mom decided to SHOW UP. AND COMMENT DURING THE Q&A SESSION. It was quite possibly the deepest humiliation a 12-year-old girl can endure. If I could have melted into a puddle and disappeared into the carpet, I would have. I remember nothing about the movie itself, shockingly.

A mural in Phoenix promotes abstinence. Teens say they want abstinence information, but they also want to learn about contraception. (cobalt123/Flickr)

Unfortunately, it seems that I'm not the only person who missed some vital information in sex ed class.

The National Campaign to Prevent Teen and Unplanned Pregnancy just released its new national survey on attitudes toward teen pregnancy, and unsurprisingly, kids have some learning to do:

• 86% of teens age 15-19 say they know everything they need to know to avoid getting pregnant. But 47% of teens say they know “little or nothing” about condoms.
• A whopping 72% of teens – including 87% of teenage boys – say they know little or nothing about birth control pills. Yikes.
• 4 in 10 teens say using birth control doesn’t matter – if it’s your time to get pregnant, you’ll get pregnant anyway. Thanks, abstinence education!
• 52% of teens say they rarely or have never talked with their parents about sex or relationships based on something they saw on television or in other popular media.

But don’t despair! It’s not all bad news!

• 79% of adults say if their teens are having sex, they hope their kids talk to them so they can make sure they’re using appropriate contraception.
• Most teens and adults agree: Students need more information about contraception AND abstinence – also known as comprehensive sex education – in order to avoid pregnancy.
• 75% of adults and teens think politicians who oppose abortion should strongly support contraception. A-MEN. You listening to them, lawmakers?

So kids and parents want more and better information. And who could blame them? Avoiding teen pregnancy is super important if you want to keep your life on track. (97% of teen girls agree!)

But one word of advice for parents: DO NOT show up at your kids’ school during sex education class. They will never forgive you, and they’ll blog about it 25 years later. And who wants that?

Let's Talk Women's Rights!

By Amy Phillips Bursch, Media Relations Manager

I confess – I’m addicted to Twitter. It’s probably not quite as harmful of an addiction as some, say this, or this, but I do spend a lot of time meeting new friends, sharing links and discussing the issues of the day. Sometimes heatedly and with salty language.

Recently, the issue of the day seems to be control. Case in point: Men who try to control women, especially when it comes to reproduction.

A protester holds a sign April 28 during a women's rights rally in St. Paul. (Fibonacci Blue/Flickr)

Whether it’s states passing restrictive new abortion laws that will force women to carry even nonviable fetuses, or people who will never be pregnant from rape weighing in on what’s expected of women who are, it’s clear that some people really need to drink a large glass of mind your own business – in my very-humble-and-probably-suspect-since-I’m-a-woman opinion.

American women certainly aren’t alone in their struggles, however. Unfortunately, examples abound from around the world of how women’s bodies are not their own:

• One study in Mali in 1998 included a focus group discussion on family planning. The men who took part came to this unanimous conclusion: Wives have no right to use contraception without their husband’s permission.
• In many traditional cultures, the husband and the desires of the husband’s family – not the wife – had the most say in fertility and family planning decisions.  In addition, “some men discouraged [family planning] use because they felt that it enabled their wives to have extramarital affairs without being caught and decreased their sexual desires/performance.”
• According to human rights activists, in Saudi Arabia, girls of any age can be forced to marry, and women can also be forcibly divorced without their permission.
• In 68 nations in the world, abortion is banned totally or prohibited unless a woman would die otherwise, according to the Center for Reproductive Rights.
• 47,000 women around the world die from unsafe abortion each year, according to the World Health Organization.

 I could go on and on and on. As I might say on Twitter: ARGLE BARGLE!

So yeah, women around the world have a LONG way to go before we’re treated as equals. This fight’s not going to be over anytime soon. But I take comfort in the fact that we’re talking about it -- whether on Twitter, or in real life. Let's talk!

Without Choice, Little Else Matters

By Amy Phillips Bursch, Media Relations Manager

 

When I’m not doing my day job of advocating for voluntary family planning programs with Population Connection, you might find me curled up on the couch at home, offering support to survivors of sexual violence. I’ve been an Online Hotline volunteer with RAINN – the Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network – for the past year. It’s not easy work – some of the stories I hear are absolutely heartbreaking. But I get more from it than I ever give. Just knowing that you’ve made the difference for someone who truly needs it is extraordinarily satisfying.

That’s partly why I’ve been livid the past few days.

A lawmaker – it hardly matters which one anymore – had the gall to say that women don’t get pregnant from “legitimate rapes.”

The women I speak with on the Hotline who find themselves pregnant after their assaults would beg to differ.

I don’t claim to be an expert on rape and sexual assault. But one thing has stuck in my mind over the course of more than 100 hours of listening to survivors. Most of the time, the rape itself isn’t the worst part of their experience. The worst part seems to the feeling of powerlessness survivors feel. Something crucial was taken from them – choice. They had no control. What they wanted simply didn’t matter to their assailant.

A sign being held at a pro-choice rally. (SMN / Flickr)

That’s what makes me so angry about the current drive to take away women’s reproductive rights.

When a woman’s choice over what happens to her own body is removed, it’s dehumanizing. For survivors, it could feel like a second assault. First, their attacker gave them no choice in what happened to their bodies. Next, their state or nation might do the same by forcing them into an unwanted pregnancy.

One of the most important things we do at RAINN is to try to help survivors reclaim their power. We don’t tell visitors what to do – we ask them what they want to do. We listen. We try to understand where they’re coming from. We offer resources to help them make the best decision for themselves.

Not the best decision for their parents. Not the best decision for their husband, wife or significant other. Not the best decision for their state or nation. Not the best decision for their attacker. The best decision for themselves. Period.

Rape is excruciatingly commonplace around the world. It’s a weapon of war. It’s a way to keep women “in their place.” It’s used as punishment. It’s a tool of control. Whatever the situation, it strips survivors of their power, and leaves them to pick up the pieces.

Women deserve to choose what happens in their lives. Everyone does.

That’s why I’m so pleased to work for a pro-choice organization like Population Connection. We believe that unless women can choose if and when to have children, no other choice matters all that much. We understand that there are many circumstances in which abortion is the best choice for women, their families and their futures. We fight to give women the family planning tools they need to become pregnant when the time is right for them and they feel they can give their child the best opportunities. We know that when women have power over their own lives, there’s nothing they can’t accomplish.

Choice matters. Choice is what makes us human. Choice gives us power over our own lives. The loss of choice is the loss of power. Let’s not allow that to happen.

Basic Reproductive Rights of Women -- Including Abortion -- Must Be Upheld

By John Seager, President, Population Connection

Furor over the bizarre notion of “legitimate rape” has swept across the domestic political landscape in recent days.  Cooler, wiser heads have affirmed that “rape is rape” – a horrific crime which often involves violence and always includes coercion or one sort of another. Certainly, there is broad consensus throughout our society that rape is a serious crime.

In some other parts of the world, rape does not seem to be taken seriously, however, regardless of what the laws may say.

A girl and baby in Lake Albert, Democratic
Republic of Congo. (Martine Perret / UN)

• A 2009 report by South African Medical Research Council found one of four men admitted to rape.
• India has seen a 678% increase in rapes since the crime was first officially tracked in 1971. 
• The U.S. State Department reports that enforcement of rapelaws is ineffective in Peru.
• And rape remains a widely used instrument of war in places such as the Congo. In fact U.N. officials have dubbed eastern Congo “the rape capital of the world.”

Clearly rape laws need to be enforced. But there also needs to be recognition here at home and around the world that the basic reproductive rights of women must be upheld. This must include the right to make the decision to terminate a pregnancy.  Yet, this basic right is not recognized in many places around the world, including by many here in the U.S.

In a perfect world, there would be no rape. In a perfect world, contraceptives would be available to all. In a perfect world, every form of birth control would be 100% effective. All pregnancies would be planned, welcomed, and result in the birth of healthy children who are wanted and loved.

But that perfect world does not exist. That’s why we must ensure access to contraception and make sure that women have the right to make their own independent reproductive choices whether they live in Missouri or Madagascar.